This month’s Word of Life is taken from Luke’s gospel. It is part of a large section of Jesus’ sayings that corresponds to the Sermon on the Mount in Matthew’s Gospel. As we know, in this section Jesus describes the requirements of the kingdom of God and the characteristics of those who belong to it. The source and goal of these requirements is imitating our heavenly Father.

In this verse Jesus calls his disciples to imitate God the Father in loving. If we want to be his children, we must love our neighbours in the way he does.

‘If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? For even sinners love those who love them.’

The first and most significant characteristic of God the Father’s love is that it is absolutely free. It is totally opposite to the world’s love. The world’s love is based on getting something back and feelings of attraction (we love people who love us and people we like). The Father’s love is completely selfless. He gives himself to the people he has made however they react. It is a love whose nature is to take the initiative, giving all that it has. Consequently, it is a love that builds and transforms. Our heavenly Father does not love us because we are good or spiritually beautiful and so deserve his attention and kindness. On the contrary, by loving us, he himself creates in us the goodness and spiritual beauty of grace, making us his friends and his children.

If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? For even sinners love those who love them.

Another characteristic of the love of God the Father is its universality. God loves everyone without distinction. The measure of his love is to have no limit or measure.

Besides, his love couldn’t be free and creative if it weren’t completely poured out wherever there is a need or a void to fill.

This is why our heavenly Father also loves those children who are ungrateful, far from him or rebellious. Indeed, he feels particularly drawn to them.

If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? For even sinners love those who love them.

How shall we live the Word of Life this month? We should behave as true children of our heavenly Father, imitating his love, above all in those characteristics we have emphasised here: its being freely given and universal. Like this we’ll try to be the first to love, with a love that is generous, in solidarity with the other, open to all, aware particularly of the voids we find around us. We’ll try to love without looking for results. We’ll make an effort to be the instruments of the open-handedness of God, sharing with others the gifts of nature and grace we have received from him.

If we let ourselves be guided by this word of Jesus, we will have new eyes and a new heart for every neighbour coming across our path, every time this chance is offered by our daily life. And wherever we are (home, school, work, hospital and so on) we will feel urged to be distributors of this love which belongs to God and which Jesus brought to earth, the only love that can transform the world.

Chiara Lubich

First published in full as the Word of Life for June 1983


Read more on this topic:

Brandl, Gary and Tom Ess, OFM. The Gospel in Action: A New Evangelization Day by Day, New City Press, 2013, p.54–61.

Lubich, Chiara. “Be the First to Love”, The Art of Loving, New City Press, 2005, p.47.

Lubich, Chiara. “The Art of Loving”, Essential Writings, New City Press, 2007, p.77.

Next month:

September 2013 –  “Let us love, not in word or speech, but in truth and action.” (1 Jn 3:18)

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  • Movimento Folcolares obrigado por esta palavra de vida que nos é oferecida para a nossa reflexão diária, ajudando-nos a vivê-la de forma autêntica… è possível em receber esta palavra de vida por email…ou em casa por correio. Como fazer ? Deus seja a vossa força.

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  • Estimados amigos focolarinos!! vivio en Villa Rumipal – Córdoba – Argentina. Leo la Palabra de vida desde los 14 años y hoy en día soy catequista de niños y próximamente de perseverancia el material que tienen es excelente ya que nos inviatan a ser hombres y mujeres nuevos cada día. Gracias y que Dios continúe bendiciendo este Movimiento de Amor y transformación para un mundo mejor. Cordialmente.
    Marianela

    • E’ proprio questa la novità e la sfida della proposta di Gesù. Volere bene chi ci è simpatico, infatti, è quasi scontato.
      Secondo la nostra esperienza, per capire queste parole bisogna ricordarsi che siamo tutti figli di un unico Padre (Amore) e cioè fratelli e sorelle fra di noi, che in tutti c’è una presenza di Dio proprio perché fatti a Sua immagine e somiglianza. Se siamo convinti di questo allora non ci sono più simpatici o antipatici ma tanti fratelli e sorelle da amare. Ci può aiutare sapere che Gesù ci ricorda che “Quello che farete all’ultimo dei miei fratelli lo riterrò fatto a me” (Mt 25,40). Vi facciamo tanti auguri e ci sforziamo insieme a mettere in pratica queste parole per fare più bello e armonioso il mondo attorno a noi. La redazione

  • Amar Gratuitamente y Universalmente.
    Ahora ya nada es gratis y cuando alguien nos ofrece algo de esta form, pensamos que debe de haber alguna trampa.
    Será por eso que mucha gente es eceptica en cuanto al amor que Dios nos da?
    Pero es real y fácil de percibir si ponemos atención a todos aquellos detalles que se nos presentan a diario.
    Nosotros tenemos que tratar de Amar a los demás, a Todos, de primero sin esperar que los resultados sean los que esperamos.

  • It will benefit us nothing “if we love those only those who loves us” because … love should be a continuous act of passing from one person to another.
    Mariapoli starts to day in Calaba Nigeria.
    sha!!

  • Que hermosa Palabra de Vida que nos trae este mes, y se trata de amar. Amar como Dios ama a sus hijos. Estamos llamados a amar a cada minuto, cuando en casa tu madre te pide un favor, o cuando en la escuela tu compañero te pide que lo ayudes en alguna tarea, o en le trabajo ayudar a tu compañero, incluso en todas partes, cada projimo es Jesus!. Veamos a Jesus en nuestros hermanos, y familia, y amenos como el nos ama siempre y a cada uno sin diferencia alguna. Mando saludos.

  • Thank you very much, the Staff at the Focolare Newsletter, for this tonic. It is always a reminder of who we are as well as what we should be.

    God bless you.

    UNO.

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