{"id":308072,"date":"2021-10-21T01:00:33","date_gmt":"2021-10-20T23:00:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.focolare.org\/what-does-happiness-taste-like\/"},"modified":"2024-05-15T20:42:46","modified_gmt":"2024-05-15T18:42:46","slug":"what-does-happiness-taste-like","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.focolare.org\/en\/what-does-happiness-taste-like\/","title":{"rendered":"What does happiness taste like?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>&#8220;Truly I tell you, just as you did it to one of the least of these who are members of my family, you did it to me.<\/em><em>&#8221; (Mt 25:40).<\/em>  <em>Gustavo Clari\u00e0, an Argentinean focolarino in Lima, recounts an experience that makes this Gospel passage come alive.\u00a0 It\u2019s \u00a0a \u00a0story that communicates a sense of joy that comes from small gestures that break down walls between people and make others happy.<\/em>  The first time I saw him he was standing there, motionless, with something in his hands which, from a distance, I couldn&#8217;t quite make out. The double mask and the hat only allowed me a glimpse of his eyes. He caught my attention because he seemed to have no expression at all and was just staring into space.\u00a0 As I drew closer, I saw that he was holding\u00a0 a box of sweets. There was no doubt he was there to sell them, yet he did nothing, not even a gesture to offer them to the people who were passing by. I greeted him, but got no reply. When I left the church at the end Mass, I greeted him again, but there was no response. \u201cThis sad man must be my age,&#8221; I thought, &#8220;how unfair life seems sometimes. Yet God loves him immensely as he loves me.\u201d  I promised myself that I would always greet him, but was this really what he expected? After all, he was there to do his job and obviously hoped that someone would notice. I decided to buy something. I&#8217;m not in the habit of spending money on sweets or eating them at any time, but I had to start somewhere. I stopped in front of him and took an interest in the variety of his products as if I were in a big sweet shop. After careful consideration, I chose a mint chocolate. I paid, thanked him and said goodbye, without eliciting any reaction. Exactly the same thing happened for several days.  I went away for about a month but then I returned and went to the parish Mass. He was still there, in the same place. I greeted him without expecting any response, but surprisingly, as he recognised me, a smile escaped his lips and he seemed happy to see me again. I could not believe it. During Mass, when it was time for the collection of offerings, I rummaged in my pocket and found a two euro coin. I was about to put it back in the basket when I thought: &#8220;Jesus\u00a0 identifies with the people who suffer the most. With two euros I can buy some more sweets.\u201d  On the way out I went to him and said, &#8220;What can you offer me today?&#8221; For the first time he looked at me and, with a complicit gesture, began to search in his box until he found what he wanted me to taste: &#8220;You will like it, it is a very good strawberry-flavoured chocolate and it costs two euros.&#8221; It didn&#8217;t seem real to me. It was the longest dialogue in the world. He had uttered a complete sentence just for me. I thanked him infinitely for his kindness and left happily. I can&#8217;t wait to see him again to confirm his choice: that strawberry chocolate was really good. <\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0Gustavo E. 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