{"id":326740,"date":"2014-10-16T03:00:10","date_gmt":"2014-10-16T01:00:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.focolare.org\/synod-meeting-of-the-focolare-movement-with-synod-bishops\/"},"modified":"2024-05-16T14:58:13","modified_gmt":"2024-05-16T12:58:13","slug":"synod-meeting-of-the-focolare-movement-with-synod-bishops","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.focolare.org\/en\/synod-meeting-of-the-focolare-movement-with-synod-bishops\/","title":{"rendered":"Synod: meeting of the Focolare Movement with Synod Bishops"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"20141016-02\"Marriage preparation, <\/b>support for women with unwanted pregnancies, willingness to leave everything behind in order to take the Gospel to faraway lands: \u201cReal life\u201d emerged at the seat of the Pontifical Council for the Family on October 12, 2014 in Rome during a meeting of Synod Bishops and auditors with a group of families from the Focolare Movement. They were welcomed by Focolare president and co-president, Maria Voce and Jes\u00fas Mor\u00e1n<\/a>. Among those who attended were Cardinal Andrew Yeom Soo-jung, Archbishop of Seoul, and the presidents of the Bishops Conferences of the Czech Republic, Slovenia, Madagascar, Tanzania, and Uruguay. \u201cHow often do we parents make mistakes with our children? At times we\u2019re too permissive, at times possessive, weak or inflexible when there\u2019s no need to be. This is where the \u2018begin again\u2019 rule must apply, always being willing to recognise our mistakes and ask forgiveness. And when it\u2019s a son or daughter who has erred, invite them to see their mistake, but at the same time demonstrate your trust.\u201d Often wounded internally by betrayals and guilty silences, <\/b>the family remains an irreplaceable setting where life is generated and transmitted. Anna Friso (New Families) went on to say that anyone who works alongside families today has decided to live life on the \u201cperipheries\u201d because, \u201cas Pope Francis says, a person is not a Christian in order to stay in the camp but to go into the peripheries of the world.\u201d \u201cAnd in the peripheries,\u201d Friso continued, \u201ca Christian cannot ask whether people are married in the Church, whether they live together or are separated. We welcome all just as they are. We love them, listen to them deeply and try to help them with their needs if we can. And, at the right moment, to each and every person, no matter the situation or background, we extend the same message: God loves you immensely. No human being is excluded from God\u2019s love.\u201d \"20141016-03\"<\/a>The bishops also listened to the story of Tiziana G. whose 13-year marriage had been made up of lies, arguments, pseudo-explanations and new disappointments. Then she met an old school friend and a new family life began. \u201cI could have gone to a church where no one knew me, and receive Holy Communion,\u201d she recounted, \u201cbut out of obedience I never did so.\u201d Tiziana did not hide from the bishops the strong sense of \u201cself-exclusion\u201d she felt, \u201cthe great spiritual loneliness\u201d<\/b> that she experienced and the \u201chuge discomfort while watching everyone else approach the altar while I remained in the pew. I felt abandoned, rejected, culpable.\u201d Then Paolo R. spoke <\/b>who, although alone, remained in his marriage. It was a painful story that began with the abandonment by his wife, going through the separation and lawyers, until he found himself in an \u201cinterior desert.\u201d But he decided to \u201cwait\u201d because \u201cthat,\u201d he said, \u201cis what Christian marriage is: a sealed box. You put your life in God\u2019s hands, through the sacrament, through the person you marry, the person you\u2019re in love with . . . but then love needs to be constructed, even amidst pain, one day after the other.\u201d

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Dieudonne and Emerthe Gatsinga from Rwanda<\/p><\/div> Also present at the meeting were Dieudonne and Emerthe Gatsinga, a couple from Kigali in Rwanda <\/b>who are auditors at the Synod. They shared their experiences of accompanying families, newlyweds and engaged couples, mainly in their own country, but also in Uganda, Burundi, Kenya and Congo. He is a gynaecologist, she is an economist. They were presented to the Pope: \u201cWhen we married we promised not to be closed in on ourselves, but to give ourselves to others. That was 26 years ago. Now we have 8 children, 4 of whom are adopted, orphans of the Rwandan Genocide. <\/b>It wasn\u2019t easy to take care of 8 children during a period of social and economic crisis in our country and with so many painful memories behind us. But God helped us and now they our children are all grown: two of them have made us the grandparents of three children.\u201d Their stories brought to life a text written by Chiara Lubich and read by Cardinal Ennio Antonelli<\/strong> during the meeting: \u201cOnly one thing constitutes, binds, and makes a family: love. . . When this love is burning in the hearts of each member of the family, then it\u2019s alive, there are no unsolvable problems, no insurmountable obstacles, and no weeping over irreparable failures.\u201d\u00a0 \u00a0<\/b> Photo gallery<\/a> (Source: SIR) <\/p>\n

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