‘If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? For even sinners love those who love them.’

The first and most significant characteristic of God the Father’s love is that it is absolutely free. It is totally opposite to the world’s love. The world’s love is based on getting something back and feelings of attraction (we love people who love us and people we like). The Father’s love is completely selfless. He gives himself to the people he has made however they react. It is a love whose nature is to take the initiative, giving all that it has. Consequently, it is a love that builds and transforms. Our heavenly Father does not love us because we are good or spiritually beautiful and so deserve his attention and kindness. On the contrary, by loving us, he himself creates in us the goodness and spiritual beauty of grace, making us his friends and his children.

If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? For even sinners love those who love them.

Another characteristic of the love of God the Father is its universality. God loves everyone without distinction. The measure of his love is to have no limit or measure.

Besides, his love couldn’t be free and creative if it weren’t completely poured out wherever there is a need or a void to fill.

This is why our heavenly Father also loves those children who are ungrateful, far from him or rebellious. Indeed, he feels particularly drawn to them.

If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? For even sinners love those who love them.

How shall we live the Word of Life this month? We should behave as true children of our heavenly Father, imitating his love, above all in those characteristics we have emphasised here: its being freely given and universal. Like this we’ll try to be the first to love, with a love that is generous, in solidarity with the other, open to all, aware particularly of the voids we find around us. We’ll try to love without looking for results. We’ll make an effort to be the instruments of the open-handedness of God, sharing with others the gifts of nature and grace we have received from him.

If we let ourselves be guided by this word of Jesus, we will have new eyes and a new heart for every neighbour coming across our path, every time this chance is offered by our daily life. And wherever we are (home, school, work, hospital and so on) we will feel urged to be distributors of this love which belongs to God and which Jesus brought to earth, the only love that can transform the world.

Chiara Lubich

First published in full as the Word of Life for June 1983

Read more on this topic:

Brandl, Gary and Tom Ess, OFM. The Gospel in Action: A New Evangelization Day by Day, New City Press, 2013, p.54–61.

Lubich, Chiara. “Be the First to Love”, The Art of Loving, New City Press, 2005, p.47.

Lubich, Chiara. “The Art of Loving”, Essential Writings, New City Press, 2007, p.77.

Next month:

September 2013 –  “Let us love, not in word or speech, but in truth and action.” (1 Jn 3:18)