Jun 22, 2023 | Non categorizzato
Entering into prayer helps us connect deeply with the presence of God in our lives. Chiara Lubich, Rev. Pasquale Foresti and Igino Giordani outline a spirituality for everyone, in daily life in towns and cities all over the world. I realized, that modern times require a rather special kind of prayer. … In the past, people thought that the world and the universe were fixed, immovable. People had to find God through the stars, through flowers, through contemplation, peace, they found union with God through moments of recollection and prayer in the church, in front of the Blessed Sacrament. Instead, nowadays, people see that the world is in evolution – it’s constantly changing. Everything is changing and human beings also find themselves in this constant movement, they too are in race towards perfection. So, people can no longer stand still and contemplate, they have to … participate with God in this evolution, in this continuing creation. So, everything you do in your job – at school, in the office, in the factory – is all part of building up the world together with God the Creator, of making the world develop. However, we have to take it ahead with the idea that we are participating in the creative work of God. Seen this way, our work is sacred. We are like the arms of God the Creator who keeps building up the world.
(Chiara Lubich, Castel Gandolfo, 25 February 1989 in “Il Respiro di Dio” [The Breath of God] edited by Fabio Ciardi, Città Nuova, 2022, p.122-123).
A very important form of prayer can be experienced in work. I am thinking especially of people working in manufacturing, of all those people who during the day are overwhelmed by a workload that almost takes away their very ability to think and so, in a certain sense, also makes it almost impossible for them to pray. If each morning, with a simple intention, we offer our daily life to God, then we will live deeply in relationship with God throughout the day. And I think that when in the evening, these people who have worked so hard, are able to recollect themselves with God, even if only for a few moments despite their tiredness, they will find unity with him: they will find it because they have worked all day in relationship with him. And this is truly the most important thing: to be in a right relationship with him. And this, after all, is what humanity wants to hear today, that the whole universe and all that happens in it, can be understood in religious terms and can be transformed into one great prayer that rises up to God from the world.
Rev. Pasquale Foresi (in “Dio ci chiama. Conversazioni sulla vita cristiana” [God calls. Talks on Christian life] Città Nuova, 2003, p.116).
This morning I felt as if I had come closer to God. I don’t think I had ever felt him so close to me. My joy was, and is, great. I feel that I have found access to Him, freely; and my intention is never to stray away from him again. By the grace of God, I have overcome the obstacles that kept me clinging to the earth. Now I am on earth, and I dwell in heaven (my ambition is huge, but His mercy is even greater. I love God so much). I am no longer hindered by the impulses of vanity, of preferences in friendships. I go directly to God, discarding these wretched things. People may betray me, slander me, even kill me: but I have God; and I love these people, without being dependent on them. I belong to God. I do not need anything else.
Igino Giordani (in “Diario di Fuoco” [Diary of Fire], Città Nuova, 1992, p.196).
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May 31, 2023 | Senza categoria
A meeting was held on the 27 and 28 May in Loppiano (Florence-Italy) to celebrate the 50th anniversary of the birth of the Loppiano Prima Cooperative. Fifty years on from the 19 May 1973, the date the cooperative was set up, the event provided a unique opportunity to recall the founding moments, take stock of the journey travelled so far and re-launch productive and commercial activities, looking ahead to the future. We would like to share with you an interview with Maria Ghislandi and Giuseppe Marvelli who were two of its founding members. “You cannot have a future without memory so it is crucial to go back to the roots, and in this break we wish to emphasize our ongoing commitment to recovering, reviving and translating into the present day context, the founding inspirations and prophetic sparks given to the Cooperative over time by Chiara Lubich”. It was with these words that Beatrice Vecchione, the current President of the Loppiano Prima Cooperative, opened the weekend of celebrations entitled Love for Creation, a prophecy on the move, a special occasion commemorating the 50th anniversary of the Cooperative’s foundation that took place on 27 and 28 May 2023 in the Auditorium of Loppiano, the Focolare Movement’s international little town near Florence in Italy. It was a weekend of exchanging and sharing ideas with a view towards integral ecology which revealed the heart of this pioneering experience of ecological agriculture during Laudato Sì Week.
“Loppiano Prima”, Beatrice Vecchione continued, “has its own physiognomy and typical characteristics well captured by the title and because it undoubtedly reflects five decades of “love for creation and of a prophecy on the move”, a prophecy of which, going back to the roots, Raffaella Pinassi Cardinali – one of the pioneers and someone who has always been a point of reference for the agricultural cooperative that was started in 1973 on the wave of a challenge – to support the construction and development of the little town of Loppiano. Starting on 19 May of that year, with 8 founding members eager to put to good use the land in the Chianti hills of Florentine Valdarno donated to the Focolare Movement by the Folonari family, Loppiano Prima has become a cooperative with a widespread shareholding system that currently has 3,256 shareholders. As stated in its Articles of Association, “it has no speculative purpose and is governed by the principles of mutuality that prevails”. Furthermore, “its main purpose is to achieve the community’s general interest in promoting humanity and integrating its citizens in society, as well as contributing to the implementation of universal fraternity”.
This is how, over the last 50 years, on uncultivated land that had been abandoned when many farmers emigrated in the post-war period, Loppiano Prima Cooperative has become the protagonist of a unique experience of ante litteram ecological agriculture which has put humanity, nature and their relationship with each other at the centre. A topic that is active and operational within Loppiano but which is also present in and for the region, the fruit of the generosity, tenacity and passion of so many volunteers of God of the Focolare Movement who felt the call to respond to Chiara Lubich’s prophecy 50 years ago, giving God through work; above all the fruit of the faith of those who believed in and wanted to take care of that dream that we have now inherited: to love creation, making of one’s own life a true witness of the Gospel. Now we will share Maria Ghislandi and Giuseppe Marvelli’s stories, two of the founding members of Loppiano Prima. https://youtu.be/IQzEiEkzwAQ
May 27, 2023 | Non categorizzato
The trip to Asia and Oceania by Margaret Karram and Jesús Morán, President and Co-President of the Focolare Movement, has come to an end. Here are some updates on what they experienced on the final stage: Indonesia Panongan (Indonesia), 17th of May 2023 – It is 8 a.m. in the morning in the Catholic parish of St. Odelia, about two hours from Jakarta. Archbishop Ignatius Suharyo, Cardinal of the Indonesian capital, has arranged a meeting for representatives of the government and law enforcement agencies, the municipality, the villages, as well as Muslim, Buddhist, and Hindu religious leaders. The purpose was to tell the President and Co-President of the Focolare about a pilot social project, being conducted collaboratively by all these sectors of society, in support of the city of Tangerang/Banten. With more than two million inhabitants, this is the third most populous area west of Jakarta, the capital of Indonesia, which with all its satellite cities has almost thirty million inhabitants. It is an area where there is great development, but also economic inequality. The people living in the villages are poor, working in the rice fields, living off the land and raising chickens, goats, and a few cows. This area, with an overwhelming Muslim majority, is within the St Odelia parish. Father Felix Supranto – known as “Romo Felix” by everyone (“romo” means “father” in Bahasa, the country’s official language) is the dynamic parish priest of St. Odelia’s. He has the gift of knowing how to bring people together. He is our host along with the many parishioners he has involved in various social projects over the years.
The Cardinal explained: ‘The dialogue we have here with our brothers and sisters of different religions is something concrete,’ ‘it looks at the needs of the people. There is a need for houses, to create job opportunities, to bring water to the villages. We are working on this ‘together’ and it is important that the President and Co-President of the Focolare have come here to see what could be a model of dialogue, also outside Indonesia. Our country’s motto is ‘unity in diversity’ and it very much expresses who we are, and how we face challenges.” “We are honoured to have you with us,” said Father Felix to Margaret Karram and Jesús Morán, “to share the journey we are on. So far, we have built twelve houses to help the poor and it is this working together that makes us brothers and sisters, even with our differences. The day continued with a visit to a school for children from 6 to 15 years old, to several villages where, thanks to the funds raised, it has been possible to bring water, to breed cows, goats and catfish and where the added value is the full involvement of everyone: institutions and local people. The visit to the madrassa – an Islamic school – is the last appointment of this first day of visits that shows us the supportive and communitarian character that is the real strength of this country. Bhinneka Tunggal Ika – we are different, but we are one Bhinneka Tunggal Ika, ‘We are different, but we are one’ is in fact the motto of Indonesia, inscribed on the national coat of arms depicting an ancient deity, the Javanese eagle.
A record breaking country With its 17,000 islands and more than three hundred ethnic groups, each with its own vibrant cultural tradition, Indonesia is a country of rich diversity. And today the population proudly presents itself to the world as an example of tolerance and coexistence between diverse cultures and religions. One example among many: the Istiqlal (Independence) Mosque in Jakarta is the largest in South-East Asia. It stands directly opposite the Catholic cathedral and during major Christian celebrations, such as Christmas, the mosque gives support by providing parking spaces for Christian worshippers; it happens the other way around on Islamic feast days. Indonesia has the highest biodiversity on the planet, but deforestation and exploitation of resources are threatening the preservation of these natural environments with serious consequences. Wealth is unevenly distributed, and it is estimated that 27,000 millionaire families (0.1% of the population) own more than half of the country’s wealth. Although it is not easy to get accurate statistics, the population is estimated at 273 million, making it the fourth most populous country in the world. Indonesia has the highest Muslim population in the world (86.1 %); Christians of various Churches make up 10.53 %, and religious affiliation is recorded on identity cards. The focolarini in Southeast Asia and Pakistan Jakarta, 19th May 2023 – Seeing the focolarini from Southeast Asia and Pakistan who have arrived in Jakarta to meet with Margaret Karram and Jesús Morán, the great potential of the Asian continent comes to light. They witness to the encounter between very different peoples and cultures: from Thailand to Myanmar, from Vietnam to Indonesia, Singapore and Malaysia. Many of them were connected online, like the focolarini in Pakistan for example, but the distance does not prevent a deep communion in which we witnessed both the challenges of inculturation in individual countries and the strength of unity, which can reach the most diverse environments.
There was a very attentive atmosphere during the question-and-answer session with Margaret Karram, Jesús Morán, Rita Moussallem and Antonio Salimbeni (who are jointly responsible for the Focolare’s interreligious dialogue). The women focolarine from Ho Chi Minh City (Vietnam) asked how to spread the spirituality of unity in these times when it is difficult to interest people, and especially young people. “On this trip to Asia and Oceania,” Margaret explained, “I realised that the way we have been offering the spirituality of unity up to now has to change, because society has changed. We are all living so ‘connected’ to one another that we need to find a way of presenting the various vocations not each one on its own, but alongside one another. Perhaps we could do this when we meet as a community of the Movement at a local level; then it will be God who speaks to the heart of each one, calling them to the different paths. I see that what touches people’s hearts is caring for people personally, building true relationships, made of selfless love. People should find in each of us a brother, a sister, a friend. Only when we have built a relationship can, we invite them to get to know the spirituality of the Focolare”. “Sometimes we might think that we do not have the right means for interesting people in the spirituality of unity,” continued Jesús in the same vein, “but we must beware of giving in to the temptation to adapt what we say to the flow of the world in order to be accepted at all costs. We have to be in the world, because it is beautiful, God created it, but we should feel the contrast with the world; it is Christian to experience it, because we belong to a truth, the truth of Christ, which goes beyond the world’. Dialogue as a way of life Jakarta, 20th May-Yogyakarta, 21st May 2023 – “Since February 2021, our life in Myanmar has changed completely. My region is the one where the conflict is worst. We wouldn’t want anyone to have to hear the explosions of artillery and aerial bombings, it is not human. We are rooted in God and focused on living in the present – because we do not know if we will be here tomorrow – and we continue to bring our people love and new hope. Every day I understand more Jesús’s words: ‘Greater love has no one than this, to lay down one’s life for one’s friends’ (Jn 15:13)”. The speaker was Gennie, who is Burmese and works for an aid agency that takes care of displaced persons of whom there are more than one million since the coup. Hers is one of the testimonies that recounted the life and challenges of the Focolare communities in Southeast Asia at the forum “Dialogue as a way of life”, held in partnership with the Catholic University of Jakarta “Atma Jaya”. 290 people attended from various parts of Indonesia as well as from various countries in Southeast Asia. Another three hundred were linked by streaming from Pakistan and elsewhere. At the centre of their testimonies is the culture of dialogue that is lived in these countries in everyday life, becoming a way of life, also in the world of economics, as Lawrence Chong from Singapore recounted. Since 2004 he has been running a management consultancy company with two other partners, a Methodist and a Muslim, according to the principles of the Economy of Communion. “Today we are present in 23 countries and our work is to bring about change, to have an impact on the economic system and improve it, based on the principles of interdependence and mutual love.”
After the celebration, where the different peoples present shared their great cultural wealth and variety of traditions, Margaret and Jesús answered some questions and shared their initial impressions of this trip. “Asia is the continent where the sun rises, while we come from Europe, where the sun is setting,” said Jesús. “In Asia and Oceania, we found a very lively Church, as well as people of different religions, and we immersed ourselves in the light that we found in the deep humanity of people. We have received so much hope for the Church and for the Work of Mary. This hope will not meet with disappointment if these people remain true to themselves. Of course, we also saw the problems: the poverty, conflicts, and wars. So, it is true that the sun rises in these countries, but we also have before us a great challenge: our hope is that the Gospel can also bear a message of freedom for these peoples”.
The Apostolic Nuncio, Archbishop Piero Pioppo, who came to celebrate Mass, expressed his wish that the message of unity and of communion may grow and spread in this world that is in dire need of it. The roots of the movement in Indonesia Also in Yogyakarta, Margaret and Jesús were welcomed by the Focolare community with the traditional dance of welcome. The meeting there was a journey into the extraordinarily rich Javanese culture and traditions, and an opportunity to learn about the roots and development of the Movement in Indonesia. After several trips were made from the Philippines from the late 1980s onwards, the focolare arrived in Medan in 2004. But no one will ever forget 2006, the year of the terrible earthquake that claimed thousands of lives. Its epicentre was on the island of Java, in the region of Yogyakarta, where the focolare is now located. Bapak Totok, one of the animators of the local community, tells how the people of the Focolare Movement, together with the local people, rolled up their sleeves to help build 22 “Pendopo” (community centres in twenty-two villages) as well as a social project. These centres have been a sign of peace and unity among people of different religions. Sunan Kalijaga Islamic University: in dialogue to promote fraternity Yogyakarta, 22nd May 2023 – With its 20,000 students, Sunan Kalijaga University is an important national academic centre for Islamic studies and has also had a Cultural Centre for Interfaith Dialogue since 2005. Margaret Karram, together with Rita Moussallem and Antonio Salimbeni, participated in the seminar “In dialogue to promote fraternity” with 160 students, teachers, and members of the local Focolare community. It is a subject that resonates in a special way here, where dialogue “goes beyond” university lecture halls or study forums, as it is both the challenge and the foundation of Indonesian society. “The presence of the leaders of the Focolare Movement is important,” explained Prof. Inayah Rohmaniyah, “because it allows us to take an extra step, not to look only at Indonesia, but to become together builders of a world renewed by the values of the fraternity that we are living, here, today”. The students’ questions focussed on the strategy of dialogue to combine cultural and religious diversity even in situations of social conflict. “Sometimes we talk very much about the difficulties and very little about the riches that these diversities bring in themselves” Antonio Salimbeni replied. “First of all, we are human beings, brothers and sisters, which is why it is important to be open, to understand the religion of the other from his or her perspective; to try to think as a Muslim thinks, as a Hindu thinks, to see the world as the other person sees it. The journey is ending, but a world is opening up Margaret Karram and Jesús Morán first official trip to Asia and Oceania is ending after 45 days travelling, visiting five countries, and meeting several thousand people – 1,500 in Indonesia alone. They met very different peoples and cultures, they have seen the challenges at first hand, but also the vitality of the Church in countries where Christianity is a minority. They have witnessed dialogue between people of different religions taking place in everyday life, dialogue that can give concrete answers to the social and economic problems of peoples and they have shared in the life of the Focolare communities in this part of the world. It is not easy to take stock on the spur of the moment, but nonetheless the question was asked, and Margaret shared some impressions of the recent public meetings: ‘I feel strongly that God is asking the Movement, in Asia in particular, but also worldwide, to take an important step. Dialogue must become our way of life, our way of acting, at all times. We cannot continue as before, looking only at our Movement and doing our own activities. The time has come to go outside, to work with other organisations, with people of different religions, as we are already doing here. So, let’s get going, there’s no time to lose! This journey has given me, once again the confirmation that unity and peace in the world are possible. Sometimes looking at the world today, with its wars and injustices, I have had doubts. But in all the countries we visited, I met many people committed to building a different society, to building bridges, even making great sacrifices. It is they who have given me the certainty that together we can make a difference and give our contribution”.
Stefania Tanesini
May 4, 2023 | Non categorizzato
The journey in Asia and Oceania of Margaret Karram and Jesús Morán, President and Co-President of the Focolare Movement, continues towards the Fiji Islands after concluding the second stage on Japanese land. Here you find some updates on their stay in Japan. ありがとう Arigato Thank you 思いやり Omoiyari Care for others 健康 Kenko Health 平和 Heiwa Peace 美しさ Utsukushisa Beauty 正直 Shojiki” Honesty According to a survey by the Japanese national TV NHK, these six words are the ones Japanese people love most. They well describe the soul of this people and the value they place on harmony in social life and with nature. Margaret Karram and Jesús Morán, President and Co-President of the Focolare Movement, with the Focolare Centre’s delegation immersed themselves in the very rich culture of Japan for the second stage of their journey to East Asia, from 25 April to 2 May 2023. The Church in Japan: recreating community
The doors to the “Land of the Rising Sun” were opened to them by the Archbishop of Tokyo, Archbishop Tarcisius Isao Kikuchi. He described the local Catholic Church as “small and silent”. There are 536,000 Christians who form 0.4% out of a population of 130 million where Buddhism and Shintoism are the majority religions. It is difficult to know which is the main one, since many Japanese follow both, and so there is a tendency to bring together different aspects of various religions. He explained that the current lifestyle is leading to a disintegration of the family, and this causes people to feel lonely and cut off. “There is a need to recreate community,” he said, “and the Focolare can help the Church do this. I encourage you to make your spirituality known to the bishops first (there are sixteen in Japan), so that through them it reaches the communities’.
The conversation continued during the visit to Archbishop Leo Boccardi, Apostolic Nuncio in Tokyo. Christians are only 2% of the population of Asia. So, what is their role? The Nuncio too encouraged the Focolare to spread the charism of fraternity. “In Japan there is order and respect among people,” he explained, “but there is also a lot of indifference. The pandemic has left an open wound: we must rebuild relationships”. “I have seen a church being born,” Igino Giordani (Foco) wrote as early as 1959. He perceived the sacredness of this country’s Christian history when he went to Tokyo at the invitation of the Canossian Sisters. He was the one who sowed the first seeds of the spirituality of unity in this country. The focolares only arrived in 1976 and ’77 and today there are three, located in Tokyo and Nagasaki. The community numbers about a thousand people scattered over the five main islands of the Japanese archipelago. Living between modernity, tradition, and a thirst for spirituality Eight days, however, are not enough to get to know the soul of a people in depth. For Margaret Karram and Jesús Morán, every meeting and conversation was precious, as was the visit to significant places in Tokyo such as the Shintoist Menji Jingu Shrine or the ultra-modern district of Shimbuya. This is how Japan expresses its great variety: it is one of the most highly developed countries in the world yet is firmly bound to tradition. Society is very homogeneous and fosters the common good over that of the individual. This people has great sensitivity, gentleness, and pays attention to others, as well as a great capacity for work and a sense of duty.
The Japanese are guided by the ‘feeling of the heart’ that knows how to grasp what is essential from concrete facts. And it is significant that the first meeting President and Co-President of the Focolare had was with the young people of the Movement, the Gen. They shared with one another in a harmonious atmosphere of simplicity and family. There was the same depth of relationship and sharing in their meetings with the focolarini and volunteers. Jesuits and Focolare together, a sign of hope for the world On 29 April, the Catholic university in Tokyo, Sophia University, hosted the eagerly awaited symposium “Can we be a sign of hope for the world?”, to which Margaret Karram and Jesús Morán were invited as speakers. The seminar offered an exceptional opportunity for dialogue between two charisms: the ‘historical’ one of St Ignatius, which brought Christianity to Japan in the 16th century, and the charism of Chiara Lubich. The focus was on the subjects of dialogue and unity in a social and religious context which is thirsting for spirituality. The other speakers were Fathers Renzo De Luca, the Jesuit provincial in Japan, Augustine Sali and Juan Haidar, lecturers at the university. The potential of this synergy emerged clearly from the talks. Margaret Karram began by saying that hope is what humanity needs most and it can be found if we engage in dialogue, even with those who are very different from us, without ever wearying. And she concluded: ‘The small and large efforts towards dialogue that each one of us can make, in building heartfelt and warm relationships, are the solid foundation on which to build a more fraternal world’. Fr De Luca explained how dialogue has been part of the DNA of Japanese Christians since the beginning. “During the persecutions, they did not reciprocate the violence they received with more violence, which is why the Popes have presented them to the world as a model”. Fr Sali reflected on the challenges of the Japanese Church in the face of secularisation, a church which must find new pathways for dialogue to offer Christian spirituality to people everywhere. In his talk, Jesús Morán explained that the Synodal path, that the Catholic Church is taking, can be an answer, but only if it is animated by communion-fellowship. “Communion and synodality naturally lead to a new encouragement to dialogue, which is increasingly necessary given the growing polarisation of societies at all levels”. Fr Haidar returned to the theme of hope and assured all present that “We have no reason to lose hope, because good is stronger than evil and God is always on the side of those who do good”. One of the symposium participants defined this shared reflection by Jesuits and the Focolare, as a “chemical reaction” that can produce new life. “I realised that dialogue requires courage, perseverance and patience; above all, I have to start doing it myself”.
“Open your hearts to everyone”, Margaret Karram’s message for the Focolare community “We are here because we want to share what we have received as a gift from God,” said Natzumi and Masaki at the start of the meeting with the Focolare community in Japan that same afternoon. There was joy and emotion in being together in person for the first time in almost three and a half years, after the pandemic. The experiences shared spoke of great faithfulness in living the Gospel in daily life in a social context that is often hostile, due to indifference or social distance. One volunteer touched on a challenging issue for all Christians in Japan: the difficulty in handing on the faith, especially to the younger generations. “If you live the Word,” Jesús Morán replied, “you can be sure that you are giving Jesus. Usually we want to see results, but Jesus is not interested in this because He wants to touch people with His life. Let us give Him everything, then He will reap what He wants and how He wants”. “Do you have a message for the Focolare community in Japan?” This was the last question that came as a surprise for President and Co-President: “The message is dialogue,” Margaret Karram replied. “I encourage you to have a new openness of heart towards everyone. It is true that Christians are a minority here, but our vocation, as members of Focolare, is to go out to others, courageously, and to open up new paths that can help build fraternity and a peaceful world’. Jesús went on: “Our specific lifestyle is to live unity and so each one of us is fully in our vocation. We are a ‘sacrament of God’s love’ for others, as Chiara Lubich says. May no one feel alone, but go forward together, because faith is lived together’. Visiting the Rissho Kosei-kai: we are one family On 1 May, 42 years after Chiara Lubich’s visit, Margaret Karram and the Focolare delegation accompanying her, entered the large sacred hall of the Rissho Kosei-kai (RKK) Centre. It is difficult to describe the joy and emotion, visible on everyone’s faces: it was like an embrace between brothers and sisters who have been journeying together for many years. This warmth was expressed by President Nichiko Niwano and his daughter Kosho.
The Rissho Kosei-kai is a lay Buddhist movement founded in 1938 by the Reverend Nikkyo Niwano. It has about one million followers in Japan, and centres in several countries. It is very active in promoting peace and well-being through humanitarian and cooperative action. In 1979 Nikkyo Niwano met Chiara for the first time. Speaking of her he said, “I have met an extraordinary person with whom I can live in fellowship.” Since then, the relationship between the two movements has never been interrupted. ‘Today we are here as one big family,’ Margaret Karram said in her greeting to the many people present and those following the ceremony online, ‘What all humanity holds most dear is the supreme value of peace. (…). Together we can be a sign of hope in the world; together, as one family, our two Movements can be like small lights shining in society, living compassion and love, which are our most powerful weapons”. Nichiko Niwano responded saying, “Today is a day we will not forget; it is a day to be grateful for because our movements are meeting together. We are like members of one family, and we have so much in common. “It is the dialogue between us that makes this happen,” continued his daughter Kosho, who in the future will succeed to the RKK presidency, “I thank my grandfather Nikkyo Niwano who made dialogue and meeting others the foundation of my life. “We experienced a morning of recollection and sacredness,” Margaret Karram concluded, “and I am bringing with me what I have learnt thanks to you: to always be grateful for what I receive as a gift. I renew the Focolare’s commitment to go forward together to fulfil the dream of a better world”.
Stefania Tanesini
Feb 8, 2023 | Non categorizzato
In a time considered the age of anxiety where no one ever feels up to the expectations of the world, the One who calls us to do great things is a Father who rests his gaze on us as on the day of Creation; a God who looks at that indestructible core of beauty that is in each person and who invites us to keep our eyes open to the efforts of those who are next to us with the same love that He has for us. Repairing the past My parents divorced when I was little and my father then had five wives: from those marriages I have two half-brothers and two half-sisters. My husband’s parents are both addicted to alcohol. Years ago, during a serious trial in the family, my husband and I decided to try to bring serenity among our relatives, as if to straighten our family tree. Since then, with prayer, with the creativity of love, with invitations to dinner, with parties, we have been able to bring about a real “healing”. Of course, all this involves effort and money but we never lack providence. For example, we had organized a birthday party for a half-sister, but at the last moment we realized that we had thought of everything except a gift. God solved the problem through a neighbour: he had bought a beautiful blouse for his daughter that turned out to be too small so he thought of offering it to our daughter. Just the right the gift for my sister! The size and colour were perfect: “How did you know it was just what I wanted” (D.E. – Czech Republic) Looking at things differently We’re a retired couple. Four years ago our neighbours forgot to turn off their garden pump overnight. As a result, our ground floor flooded, causing about $9,000 in damage. We asked the neighbours to report the damage to their insurance company in order to get compensation but they refused because it would increase the annual cost of the insurance. There and then I wanted to take them to court also because there were reliable witnesses. But then, talking about it, my wife and I decided to forgive them. In these four years we have always greeted them kindly, exchanging a few words with them. Two days ago they moved house and, while the workers were loading the furniture on the truck, our neighbour approached my wife: “You are good people and we have wronged you. Please forgive us”. When we heard these words, the world seemed a little more beautiful. (T.C. – USA)
Curated by Maria Grazia Berretta
(taken from The Gospel of the Day, New City, year IX – n.1° January-February 2023)