Be attentive to what the other is living.
It’s the secret of putting yourself in the other’s shoes, maybe lose an idea to reassure him, so that he may express himself.
How many things do change in our attitude if we put ourselves in this attitude of listening to the other, understand him, truly penetrate in his thoughts,
in his heart, to deeply share his life, practically become one with him.
This is a very important point for love in the couple and in the family with the children, with the parents.
This is the way to empty yourself, to welcome the other in his entireness,  to understand his desires, his expectations, his way of looking at things.
Becoming one helps us to be really united, it allows us to experience  a deeper and deeper trust, also spiritual, between us.

To remedy this difficulty, it’s very important to be able once in a while to find a little time
to be alone for example as a couple,  without friends and without children, just to focus on our relationship.
Today let’s try to be full of resources and let’s find the moment and
the way to talk deeply with our wife/our husband about the way
we are the two of us in being attentive to what the other is living.
The same goes for those precious moments of the relationship of a parent w
ith his or her child or of the two parents with one of their children.
Live together simple but also special moments to go deeper in the relationship.