1 Sep 2026 | Idea of the Month
They call it the “platinum Rule”. Everyone seems to know about the Golden Rule – “do unto others as you would have them do unto you” – and it is precisely from this maxim that what is, arguably, a more universal idea has developed. This is “try to understand what the other person would like done to them and act accordingly”.
Maybe it is through such actions that we can recognise one of the most genuine forms of love. This is expressed when we meet one another as equals, each with our own strengths and vulnerabilities, in a relationship of reciprocity and respect and recognising the value and dignity of every life, even in the most difficult circumstances. It is a matter of never ignoring the people around us but being very attentive to them.
Chiara Lubich said, “True love for one’s neighbour does no harm.” [1] Indeed, if we love, we avoid every form of hurt and harm, both to ourselves and to our brothers and sisters. The first step in loving one’s neighbour is exactly this. However, to love fully, we need also to be creative in doing so. Pope Francis reminded us that it is not enough simply to refrain from harming our neighbour; we must choose to do good and take advantage of every opportunity that arises.
We know that none of us can give what we do not have, and it is only by recognising the love we have already received that we can fully share our gifts with others.
How, then, can we put this ‘Idea of the Month’ into practice? Let us put love at the centre of our lives. Let us love others in practical ways, with creativity and imagination, and above all with deep listening that comes ‘from within’, from the heart.
Doris, a young woman from Scotland, tells us: ‘During our regular visits to a homeless shelter, I step into a world very different from my own. I know that what I feel doesn’t matter so much; what matters is loving. One day, a man whose face was marked with deep sadness confided in me that he felt ready to end it all, that he even wanted to die. I simply sat and listened to him and then we shared a sandwich and a coffee. I realised that listening and being there for him was already a way of showing love. When it was time to leave, he gave me a big hug and smiled, saying that what we were doing was very important, not just for him, but for everyone there. I felt the incredible power of love. Perhaps I didn’t ‘save’ him, but his gratitude filled me with joy, and that, in itself, is very powerful.”
[1] C. Lubich, Word of Life, September 1993
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1 Sep 2026 | Non categorizzato, Word of Life
Can we command someone to love others? If we understand love as a feeling, it is clearly impossible! However, if we understand it as a gift from God, things change.
In his letter to the Romans, from which this word of life is taken, Paul describes the relationship between the Law and love very precisely by stating that love is the fulfilment of the Law. He had already revealed the source of this love: ‘God demonstrates his own love for us in this: while we were still sinners, Christ died for us’ (Rom 5:8). The First Letter of John also refers to love: ‘This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins’ (1Jn 4:10).
Love does no harm to a neighbour; therefore love is the fulfilment of the Law.
None of us can give what we do not have. Augustine understood this very clearly and when addressing God directly, he said: ‘Give what you command, and command what you will. [1] We have received the priceless gift of God’s love and are called not to keep it only for ourselves but to pass it on to others. From being recipients of God’s love, we can become its agents: from being loved, we are called to become lovers, thus sharing in the very life of the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit: the Lover, the Beloved and Love.
Paul assures us that we owe nothing to other people except this mutual love, for whoever loves others has fulfilled the Law.[2]
Love does no harm to a neighbour; therefore love is the fulfilment of the Law.
‘True love of neighbour,’ says Chiara Lubich, ‘does no harm. It therefore enables us to live out all of God’s commandments, without exception, since their primary aim is to help us avoid all forms of evil – towards ourselves and towards our brothers and sisters – into which we might fall.[3]
Understood in this way, the commandments of the Law become, a gift of God’s love rather than an obligation: they do not constrain our love but set it free.
Love does no harm to a neighbour; therefore love is the fulfilment of the Law.
To reach this degree of love for our neighbour, the first step is to avoid harming them. However, we can take this a stage further and become creative in love: Pope Francis reminded us, “It is not enough not to harm one’s neighbour; we must choose to do good, seizing opportunities to bear witness that we are disciples of Jesus.”[4]
How, then, are we to live out this word of life? Let us put love back at the centre of our lives. Let us love others in a concrete way, just as Jesus would love them: He is the fullness of love, wholly given to God and to humanity. From Him we can learn the highest measure of love.
Love does no harm to a neighbour; therefore love is the fulfilment of the Law.
Doris, a young woman from Scotland, tells us: ‘During our regular visits to a homeless shelter, I enter a world very different from my own. I know that what I feel doesn’t matter so much; what matters is loving. One day, a man whose face was marked with deep sadness confided in me that he felt ready to end it all, that he even wanted to die. I simply sat and listened to him and then we shared a sandwich and a coffee. I realised that listening and being present was already a way of showing love. When it was time to leave, he gave me a big hug and smiled, saying that what we were doing was very important, not just for him, but for everyone there. I felt the incredible power of love. Perhaps I didn’t ‘save’ him, but his gratitude filled me with joy, and that, in itself, is very powerful.’
Prepared by Claudio Cianfaglioni & the Word of Life team.
[1] iConfessions of St. Augustine 10,29,40
[2] Cf. Rm 13, 8.
[3]C. Lubich, Word of Life Sept 1993
[4] Pope Francis, General Audience, 3 Jan 2018
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